Today is a special day—the day my incredible wife was born! The world has been a better place ever since. If you know my wife, you know she’s kind, loving, and far more patient than I deserve (especially when I leave dishes near the sink instead of in it). So today, I want to celebrate her, marriage, and birthdays in the way I know best—words, humor, and a little bit of Scripture.

Birthdays: A Biblical Perspective

Birthdays are a big deal in our house. Not only do they mean cake (which I take very seriously), but they also remind us that life is a gift from God. Every birthday is a reminder that we are here on purpose, for a purpose. It’s not just about getting older; it’s about growing in wisdom, grace, and faith.

Psalm 118:24 (NIV) captures this perfectly:

“This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.”

My wife’s birthday isn’t just another day on the calendar; it’s a day God set apart, a day to rejoice, and a day to reflect on the blessing she is.

Aging is often met with mixed emotions, but Scripture reminds us that growing older is a privilege. Proverbs 16:31 (NIV) says:

“Gray hair is a crown of splendor; it is attained in the way of righteousness.”

Now, my wife doesn’t have gray hair (and might not appreciate me bringing up the idea), but the point is, every year is a testament to God’s faithfulness.

Wives: God’s Greatest Gift to Husbands (Besides Cake)

The Bible has a lot to say about the beauty and importance of a godly wife. Proverbs 18:22 (NIV) tells us:

“He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.”

I can attest to that. Finding my wife was like winning the lottery—if the lottery also made sure you ate vegetables, scheduled dentist appointments, and taught you how to fold a fitted sheet.

A wife isn’t just a partner; she’s a reflection of God’s love and grace in a husband’s life. Ephesians 5:25 instructs husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church. That’s a high calling, but one I take seriously (even if I need occasional reminders that buying flowers “just because” is always a good idea).

Marriage is a beautiful, sometimes hilarious adventure. We’ve built a life filled with love, laughter, and the occasional disagreement about the “right” way to load the dishwasher (hint: her way is always right). But that’s the beauty of marriage—it’s about growing together, learning from each other, and finding joy in the little moments.

A Wife’s Role in Guiding Her Husband Spiritually

As a husband, I am called to be the spiritual leader of my family. Ephesians 5:23 states:

“For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior.”

But here’s the truth—while I may captain the boat, without my wife’s steady hand on the tiller, I wouldn’t be where I am today. While I strive to lead spiritually, she has been instrumental in keeping me on course, reminding me to pray, and pointing me back to Christ.

Proverbs 31:26 (NIV) says:

“She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.”

My wife didn’t just support me in my faith journey—she was the one who introduced me to the Good News in the first place. Before we were married, before I understood the depth of God’s love, she was there, gently guiding me, sharing Scripture, and living out the Gospel in a way that made me realize I needed Jesus. She made it clear that she would not marry a man who did not have a relationship with God, and I wanted to marry her, so I figured I’d give this God thing a chance. Because of her faithfulness, in the end I gave my life to Christ.

In fulfilling her role as a wife, she has also fulfilled the Great Commission—at least once, in me. Matthew 28:19-20 (NIV) commands:

“Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.”

She did just that. She brought the Good News to her future husband, and because of her, I now walk in faith. I will forever be grateful for that. Husbands may be called to lead, but a wise and faithful wife is often the one making sure we don’t stray from the path.

A Birthday Blessing for My Wife

So, my love, on your special day, I just want to say:

• You are a blessing beyond words.
• You are proof that God is good because He put you in my life.
• You are the reason our home is filled with love (and also the reason I know the difference between “decorative” pillows and “functional” pillows).

I pray that this year brings you more joy, more laughter, and more reasons to remind me that you were right about something yet again. May God continue to bless you with good health, wisdom, and a heart full of His love.

Psalm 20:4 (NIV) says:

“May he give you the desire of your heart and make all your plans succeed.”

That is my prayer for you today and always. May God grant you the desires of your heart, guide you in all your endeavors, and continue to shower you with His favor.

Final Thoughts

If you’re reading this and you also have an incredible wife, take a moment today to tell her how much she means to you. Life is short, love is precious, and birthdays are a great reminder to celebrate the people who make our lives richer.

Happy birthday, my love! May your day be filled with joy, blessings, and cake (mostly cake).